How to Shift the Habits That Hold Back Your Weight Loss

How to Shift the Habits That Hold Back Your Weight Loss

Let’s be honest... most of our behaviours aren’t fully intentional.

They’re habits. Reactions. Coping mechanisms. Things we picked up when we were busy, stressed, tired, or just trying to get through the day. But if you never pause to evaluate your patterns, you’ll keep repeating the same ones, even when they’re no longer serving your goals. Especially your weight loss goals. That’s why Week 8 of this challenge is about interruption. We’re not just continuing routines. We’re auditing them.

What Does “Breaking the Pattern” Mean in a Weight Loss Journey?

It means asking yourself:

- What am I doing without thinking?
- Are these behaviours aligned with who I want to become?
- Are they helping me feel stronger, healthier, more energised or more chaotic and reactive?

Here’s the good news: Patterns can be broken with awareness and small shifts. In weight loss, these shifts are often what create the biggest breakthroughs.

3 Types of Patterns to Audit for Better Weight Loss Results

Mental Patterns (Self-Talk & Thought Loops)

Thoughts like:
- “I never finish anything.”
- “I’ll just start over Monday.”
- “I’m not seeing results, so what’s the point?”

These aren’t truths, they’re just mental habits. And they directly affect your weight loss consistency.

Try reframing them with something more helpful:
- “I missed one day. That’s okay - the week isn’t lost.”
 “What’s one choice I can make today that moves me forward?”

Emotional Patterns (Stress & Avoidance Responses)

You might notice:

- Scrolling when you feel anxious
- Skipping training when overwhelmed
- Eating chaotically when tired or emotional

These are protective defaults, but they don’t need to lead anymore.

Try this instead:
- Walk or stretch before reaching for food
- Voice note a friend or your coach when spiralling
- Journal your thoughts instead of numbing them away

These shifts won’t just improve your mood, they’ll reduce setbacks in your weight loss progress.

Behavioural Patterns (Your Daily Defaults)

Small daily habits have the biggest impact on fat loss, for better or worse.

Common culprits:
- Skipping breakfast or under-eating protein
- Staying up late despite being exhausted
- Overcommitting and saying “yes” to everyone but yourself
- Skipping workouts with no backup plan

You don’t need to be perfect this week. You just need to catch the pattern early and choose a better response.

How to Actually Break a Habit Loop

Step 1: Identify It

Notice the pattern. Name it. “This is that thing I keep doing.”

Step 2: Replace It

Have a small, intentional action ready:

- Instead of scrolling → journal + lights out

- Instead of skipping meals → prep a simple go-to dinner

- Instead of spiralling → message your challenge buddy

Step 3: Repeat It

Interrupting a habit once isn’t enough. Repeat your replacement action until it becomes the new normal, the one that supports your weight loss journey.

Ready to Shift Your Habits?

You don’t need a full life overhaul. You just need to stop repeating the behaviours that keep pulling you off track. The magic isn’t in doing more. It’s in leaking less energy, wasting less time, and choosing alignment over autopilot.

This week, let’s shake off what’s not serving you and start building something better for your body, your mindset, and your weight loss results.

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